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7 Effective Ways To Defuse Potentially Explosive Arguments With Your Partner
“Many can argue; not many converse.” — Amos Bronson Alcott
Even in the healthiest of relationships, arguments are an inevitability for most couples.
Still, arguing with our partners is often a very upsetting, emotionally draining experience. When we argue, we often know what emotional “hot buttons” to push that will send our mate over the edge.
Words said in hurt and anger can cut like knives, leaving behind lingering resentments that can fester if not addressed.
Our mouths do not have a backspace key. Contrary to the old adage about “Stick and stones…,” our words can cut as deep as daggers — leaving behind scars often more damaging than physical ones.
Fortunately, there are constructive and healthy ways to handle disagreements within your relationship when they occur.
The following are seven effective strategies that can be used to defuse potentially volatile arguments.
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